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Tracking Developmental Milestones Through Play

Play is the window through which parents can observe their child's development. Understanding what to look for at each age helps you support growth and identify any concerns early.

Dr. Rachel Foster
11 min read
Published 15 Dec 2025
Parent observing child reaching developmental milestones during play

Developmental milestones are skills and behaviours that most children achieve by certain ages. While every child develops at their own pace, understanding typical milestone timelines helps parents provide appropriate support and identify potential concerns early. Play is the most natural and reliable context for observing these milestones, as children demonstrate their true abilities when they are relaxed, motivated, and engaged.

Birth to Six Months

During the first six months, play is primarily sensory and social. Look for your baby tracking objects with their eyes, reaching for and grasping toys, responding to your voice and facial expressions, and beginning to roll over. Play at this stage involves lots of face-to-face interaction, gentle physical games, and exploration of different textures and sounds.

Six to Twelve Months

This period brings dramatic physical development. Babies typically begin sitting independently, crawling, pulling up to standing, and possibly taking first steps. In play, look for increasing hand-eye coordination, the ability to transfer objects between hands, early problem-solving such as finding hidden toys, and the emergence of cause-and-effect understanding through activities like pressing buttons and dropping objects.

One to Two Years

Toddlers are explorers, and their play reflects this. Walking and climbing become increasingly confident. Language begins to emerge, with first words appearing around twelve months and vocabulary expanding rapidly. Play becomes more purposeful, with children beginning to stack blocks, complete simple puzzles, and engage in early pretend play such as feeding a doll or talking on a toy phone.

Two to Three Years

The third year brings an explosion of language, imagination, and social awareness. Children begin to engage in parallel play with peers, use two to three word sentences, show increasing independence, and demonstrate early empathy. Play becomes more complex, with extended pretend play sequences, more sophisticated construction, and the beginnings of rule-based games.

Three to Five Years

Pre-school children demonstrate increasingly sophisticated play skills. Cooperative play with peers emerges, imaginative scenarios become elaborate and sustained, physical skills allow for more challenging activities, and early literacy and numeracy concepts appear naturally in play contexts. Children at this stage can follow multi-step instructions, take turns in games, and begin to understand the concept of rules.

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Dr. Rachel Foster

Dr. Rachel Foster is a child development researcher and regular contributor to Kids Play Magazine, specialising in evidence-based approaches to children's play and learning.